Once you get into the Stretching Room, you are out of the general queue for the ride. You are going to ride almost immediately after leaving the stretching room.

While abhor people who cut in line to "get with my group/family" because I believe everybody should get in line together so you go as fast as your slowest party, once you are inside the show building, it doesn't matter anymore because the experience has started.

So, those people saying those things were jerks. Period.