long story, but will try to keep it brief.
got a phone call from dear BIL "trying" to help out his parents (who filed up for bankruptcy and foreclosure of their house a year after my FIL retired). BIL wants to give them a place to live in by investing on a Condo for them but is saying that he needs 10% towards the downpayment. The problem is he has no money right now and he's trying to borrow the money from my husband. My husband explained to him that our money is tied up for our upcoming trip next year. Is it too selfish of us to not give up our vacation?