Our DS is going into the military. I plan on going down to the recruiter's office on the day he ships out to watch him swear in and say good bye one last time. DH has just announced he is not going, unless DS specifically asks. We have been told there is a lot of hurry up and wait and DH has never been good at that. I am so mad and disappointed . This is an important day in our son's life. Why can't he just go? I am now at the point where I don't want him there. I am afraid that if he does come with us he will just sit and complain. I sure don't want him spoiling the day for any of us, especially DS.

Thanks for listening.