The Disneymooners Pre-trip Report! (May 26-June 3)

[MissStyles]

Wow.......you really have it all planned out! I'm sure you guys are going to have a blast. I'll be on the lookout for you ...as I'll be there during your first days there. Goodluck with the wedding too...I'm sure it'll all fall into place perfectly!!!

[k_reile]

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and disneymoon. One word of advice is the day after your wedding not to over do anything and relax. DH and I honeymooned in St Lucia (thoough I pouted hard for Disney...but we had a great trip anyways) we flew out of Columbus around 7am the day after our wedding and by the time we got to St Lucia we were absoultley exhuasted. Take your time...enjoy each other and your trip.

[poeticeclipse]

Wedding Countdown: 11 days
Disneymoon Countdown: 12 days

It's getting so close! The wedding and Disneymoon that is! I'm getting more and more excited and more and more nervous as the days get closer. I'm still in such disbelief that I will be married at the end of this month... MARRIED... ME!

This past Saturday I went with my mom to South Bend to get all of the last minute stuff. There were tons of little things that I had to buy. I found my wedding jewelry which I had been putting off buying for a very long time. I was under the impression that I would be wearing my fiance's grandmother's pearls. Well, she gave me the pearls to try on with my dress and guess what... they're yellow! I've never seen such faded pearls in my life. And with my ivory dress they just don't match. So, i'm going to have to break her heart and tell her that I won't be wearing them on my wedding day. I just can't. I've been in a conundrum about this entire situation for some time now. I am going to carry my father's necklace that I found 6 months ago in some of his old stuff around my bouquet. There just isn't a place for Matt's grandmother's pearls to fit in. I feel terrible but I just don't know what else to do. She's been terribly pushy about us using everything she gives us. She gave us a bird cage to put our cards in at the reception. But, she wasn't thinking when she bought an old antique one (beautiful) that is far too small and doesn't even open! Luckily, Matt's dad was able to mess with it and ended up getting it to open after busting a clasp on the top. We'll use it... but I just don't know how long it will withstand the guests abuse. The grandmother (this is what i'm calling her now) also wants us to use baby's breath EVERYWHERE. Now, no offense to those of you who like baby's breath.. but I truly hate it. Let's just leave it at that. She orders that we must use it everywhere. She's never once asked if I want to use it or if I even like it. I suppose that doesn't matter anymore. Oh well, i'll have to put my foot down as gently as I can.

I've said plenty of that... onto the DISNEYMOON! We got our DME stuff in the mail. That's always my favorite part. How exciting to see your name on this cute little yellow tags. I called my fiance at work and yelled through the phone "we got more Disney stuff.....yayyyy!" He replied with "more? why do we need more?" Typical answer I suppose. haha.

Anyone ever use the Planet Hollywood vouchers? Or are they as big of a waste as they seem? Last year we got the voucher for the key chain... we took that. And I can honestly say I have no idea where that key chain is right now. We're thinking in doing the sea raycer thing. That sounds like fun. But, I can honestly say that I don't want to spend one and half hours on a tiny boat. A half hour... yes... one hour.. maybe... one and a half hours... not so much. Maybe we'll take turns driving. That might keep it more entertaining. We will definitely do the miniature golf! We love mini golf. There is the most ghetto mini golf place here in our tiny city that we love going to. Their idea of scenery is a few large rocks and a run down windmill. Quaint, huh?

We're getting there... it's getting closer.... i'll keep you posted up until then! Thanks for reading!

[Belle's Mom]

Girl, you are cracking me up!!! I know your time will be fantastic! We will miss you guys by a few days, sorry to say. I believe I could spot you after looking at all those pictures of your cute selves! Congrats and I can't wait to hear more...

[mrsgaribaldi]

You two are adorable I can see that you are going to be a gorgeous bride, I can't wait to see the pictures.
I just wanted to tell you that the phrase "the ol'man and I " is not popular anymore, I believe the PC term these days is "the old ball and chain and I"
Have a great trip

[daparish]

You two are so cute!!!!! I am not sure what I am most anxious for - to see the wedding pictures or read the post about your trip. We will not be going back for awhile but reading your pretrip report gets me all excited as if I am planning my own trip.

[irish1967]

Stacey - you are about to hear Irish's famous wedding advice - tune in your mouse ears 'cuz, hundreds of brides (ok, maybe 10 or so) have heard this advice and now swear by it...

The only thing that REALLY matters is your goal...

#1 - what is your goal (to be married by before you leave for your Disneymoon)

#2 - what do you need to achieve your goal? (a groom (check), someone liscensed by the state to perform a marriage (is Captain Jack Sparrow in the house?) (all kidding aside, I assume this is a check) and a witness or two (depending on the state you live in) (I assume that this is also a check)

At the end of the day - everything else is icing on the cake - enjoy the process - but don't stress about Grandmother's pearls or centerpieces or baby's breath because ultimately they are not necessary in achieving your goal!

Have a wonderful wedding day and Disneymoon - I can't wait to see other updates and trip reports!

[poeticeclipse]

Stacey - you are about to hear Irish's famous wedding advice - tune in your mouse ears 'cuz, hundreds of brides (ok, maybe 10 or so) have heard this advice and now swear by it...

The only thing that REALLY matters is your goal...

#1 - what is your goal (to be married by before you leave for your Disneymoon)

#2 - what do you need to achieve your goal? (a groom (check), someone liscensed by the state to perform a marriage (is Captain Jack Sparrow in the house?) (all kidding aside, I assume this is a check) and a witness or two (depending on the state you live in) (I assume that this is also a check)

At the end of the day - everything else is icing on the cake - enjoy the process - but don't stress about Grandmother's pearls or centerpieces or baby's breath because ultimately they are not necessary in achieving your goal!

Have a wonderful wedding day and Disneymoon - I can't wait to see other updates and trip reports!

WONDERFUL points! I will definitely take this and everyone's advice to heart. There are far wiser people in this world than I am i'm smart enough to know this.

Still, I plan something for one and a half years and to have something VERY BAD happen would sooo stink. haha. The little things can roll right off.

[TikiGoddess]

I've really enjoyed hearing about your Disneymoon and your wedding updates! You are at such a great time in your life -- have a wonderful time at your wedding and on your honeymoon. We'll be here waiting to hear all about it!


TikiG

[TFrauts]

You are reminding me of myself right now....you sound EXACTLY like me!! ( I am totally worried about keeping everyone happy, not offending anyone...) Except my wedding is not until July 28th....YIKES...but I am stressing about the small stuff...flowers...speaches.... grandparents("we are very disappointed that you are having wine at your wedding...why don't you use apple cider instead...") But when I look at the big picture...The wedding day will fly by so fast...I don't care if my ring bearer gets spooked, and won't do anything that he is planned to do, and its raining out(we are getting married on the beach) because, by 9:30am the next morning, I will be in Orlando, and at Disney by lunch time...and I don't have to be home for 2 weeks....YEAHHH>>>>

[poeticeclipse]

You are reminding me of myself right now....you sound EXACTLY like me!! ( I am totally worried about keeping everyone happy, not offending anyone...) Except my wedding is not until July 28th....YIKES...but I am stressing about the small stuff...flowers...speaches.... grandparents("we are very disappointed that you are having wine at your wedding...why don't you use apple cider instead...") But when I look at the big picture...The wedding day will fly by so fast...I don't care if my ring bearer gets spooked, and won't do anything that he is planned to do, and its raining out(we are getting married on the beach) because, by 9:30am the next morning, I will be in Orlando, and at Disney by lunch time...and I don't have to be home for 2 weeks....YEAHHH>>>>

oh, don't get me wrong...i'm stressing about the flowers, catering, place cards, bridal party, pushy grandmothers, drunk future brother in laws... the list goes on. But I look at it the same way as you do... just get it done, get on the plane, go to WDW! hahaha

[TFrauts]

ughhh...place cards( I almost forgot about those...ofcourse my fiance wanted two meal choices to make my life even more difficult...yellow sticker for chicken...reds sticker for beef...ughhh...)...and seating arrangements, and wedding favors....
I think im almost more excited for my honeymoon, than my wedding!!
Good luck with everything!! Im sure it will all turn out great!!

[poeticeclipse]

I think im almost more excited for my honeymoon, than my wedding!!
Good luck with everything!! Im sure it will all turn out great!!

I'm with ya! It sounds terrible but when this stress is all over and we can enjoy Disney for 8 1/2 days... ahhh.....what bliss.

[ChipnDaleGal]

Good luck with your big day next week! I know there is a lot to worry about, but I hope you can relax and enjoy it!!

I have no doubt that your honeymoon will be full of fun, laughter and romance!! Enjoy every minute of it!

[poeticeclipse]

3 Days to go!!!

Oh yes, the time has come for me to post my final pre-trip report. I'm as ecstatic as a little bunny on speed. I cannot WAIT to get married! I'm getting a bit more nervous as the days pass. About what? Well, i'm not so sure. Just the usual butterflies I suppose. But, like all of you have said, just remember "Disneymoon, Disneymoon, Disneymoon..." I keep that on my mind a lot and it helps me get through the days a little bit faster. I work at a bank and we have some down time where I can get on INTERCOT and just mellow out. Right now, my co-worker and I have Disney music playing. Certain songs come on and I get super choked up. Especially during "Hawaiian Roller Coaster Ride" for some reason. I just feel the "Disney" so much in that song. It's nuts. During that part in Lilo & Stitch I just get teary eyed and think "this is how life is supposed to be... this is when it's best."

I'm normally packed 2 weeks in advance for any WDW trip. Well, it's 3 days before I leave and i'm still not packed. I have some shorts and a few tank tops in my suitcase but other than that, my close are keeping warm in my dresser. Tonight, we meet with our photographers one last time and go over all of the details. After that, it's packing time for Stacey. Packing is the one thing that I don't get stressed doing. I find it fun because I can be totally neurotic and it's okay. My mom knows that coming around me when i'm packing for WDW isn't a good idea. One, I end up crying at some point because I play my Disney planning videos and it just gets me in the mood. Two, I have to concentrate when I pack. There is an exact way I like to pack. I have a list, and I have my main suitcase and one carry-on. I'm sounding crazy aren't I? Okay, maybe I should just put a "Do Not Disturb, Crazy Disney Lunatic Packing" sign on my door.

Now it's time for my question column...
1. Anyone fly AirTran? When you buy your tickets online they send you a few e-mails. Are those e-mails what you need to take with you to check-in? And then they give you your boarding passes, right? Also, how do I go about using the flight check in at the resort when we HAVE TO go back home?

2. Any last minute advice on the big day? No no no, not meeting Mickey. Getting married, silly!! I'd love to hear more words of wisdom from those much wiser than I.

3. Who's going to read my trip report? Because it's going to rock!

Until the next time... when i'll be married... the ol' ball and chain.... the ol' man and his little wifey.... Mickey and Minnie?

[kakn7294]

Stacey, you are just too cute! I love reading these posts and I will definately be looking for your trip reports! My advice for your wedding is this - relax and go with the flow. You've done all of your planning and hard work for the perfect and inevitably something will go wrong (Murphy's Law and all) but it happens to us all. My DH gave me the wrong hand for his ring and the preacher forgot the part about kissing the bride. Sometimes these are the best moments because they are things you can remember and laugh about years down the road. Nobody remembers what color the bridesmaids wore or what flowers you had. So take some advice from an old married lady and quit your stressing! You'll make a beautiful bride and all that matters in the end is that you will have your prince by your side for the rest of your lives (and he's quite a handsome prince!). Best wishes to you both!

[Carolanne]

Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials! Enjoy every minute of your Disneymoon, and make sure you bask in the attention that comes with being newlyweds on their honeymoon in WDW!

[Belle's Mom]

You will be the blushing bride, for sure! Just concentrate on being in the moment and everything will fall into place. After the big event, just think, you will be off to the happiest place on earth and in your new hubby's arms to boot. What could be better?

[disneydeb]

Have a great time and a great life together!

[Kairi_7378]

Stacey, throwing some pixie dust that your wedding will be everything that you dreamed that it would be. You two are very cute, and you look like you will make each other happy for years to come. I am sure that the grandmothers will behave and that your flowers will be great. Can't wait to see the pics of you guys with your bride and groom mouse ears! to your very own happily ever after!